Dann, it's very rarely simple for somebody who's unsure.My advice would be not to worry about it and just go with the flow. If you have feelings for someone, male or female just go with it and see what happens. Try not to worry about it, because that may well just confuse you further.There is no set way of "tell what you are". It varies from person to person. Some people might just know, some might never be confused and others go through long periods of being unsure about themselves. Sometimes something can happen that might help you make up your mind, you might meet someone special or find yourself in a situation where everything is called to question very quickly. But ultimately, try not to worry and don't feel the need to label yourself as one or the other, everyone is individual.