Hi @Matt N, I was wondering if you're settling in to Uni a little more now, or if you're still getting used to things?
What are you studying?
I can completely understand the sudden change from the 'school structure' you get at 6th form in to a more "sort yerself out" kind of situation at uni.
I went to College rather than 6th form, which I think set me up really well for Uni, better than 6th form ever could have done. Without doing College however I think I would have found starting Uni similar to you to begin with, and I know that a lot of my friends who came from 6th form felt the same as you.
It's A LOT to get used to isn't it, it's all very different to school.
I hope it's settled down now though and you're starting to enjoy it?
I think if I could give you any advice at all from my experience, it would be
to ask the staff for help with things. Be bold, and approach them directly - this is kind of a life hack I've taken with me in to work - just ask and I bet they'll be happy to help! Don't forget, you're paying them for this. If you don't ask, you don't get
to remember that you absolutely deserve to be there, and you absolutely deserve to enjoy yourself. You've clearly worked really hard to get your place at Uni, doing the subject you wanted to do.
despite what people might tell you while you're there, most employers don't give a damn if you get a 1st. Getting a degree is really hard - which lets face it, is kind of the point! Nobody ever gets 100% on any assignment, that's impossible, just give it your best shot and be proud of what you're achieving! The fact you have been passing your assignments is REALLY good! You're on track to get a degree, that's an amazing achievement!
What I'll also say though is this..
Someone I went to Uni with dropped out in the first year, and he now has a collection of incredible cars and runs a web design company employing multiple staff...
If you're really not enjoying Uni, if it's not for you, then it's not for you - that's ok!
Most of my colleagues at work didn't go to Uni, and here we are in the same position as each other.
Ugh.. I've rambled......
Be happy Matt. That's more important than anyone likes to say
Look after yourself and do what's right for you, not anyone else.