Todays rant is about men.So I meet a guy in November and it progresses and you both have plans to meet up and see how things go etc etc. In the space of a week their friend starts poking you on facebook and eventually adds you, as a kind gesture I accepted and we spoke a bit. This guy seemed like a nice genuine person, and we decided it could be a good idea to meet. It is all going well with this other guy however the age was a huge stall in the stable with a whooping 13 age year gap, it started to get rocky and I decided it was a good idea to leave it and have a hard think about what I wanted. After a few weeks I ended up having sexual relations with this guy and thats when it truely was a no no. After a few more weeks leading to a week ago when I was in London, I had a surprise meeting from the guy I spoke to in November, which was secretly planned by my best friend. It was a shock as it originally was only going to random meet for sexual relations, however it ended up us both actually quite liking each other and it could be a possibility in the future that we get together in a relationship.Anyway, this is where the story unfolds. Upon this unexpected meeting, I found out the second guy had lied about his age and was infact older then he originally stated. Along this he had lied to me by saying he doesnt 'shag anybody and usually only in a relationship'. I found out he sleeps with anything that moves and even attempts having sex with people whilst unconsious from drinking. I was shocked scared and felt somewhat humiliated. I had a hgue argument with the second guy and he doesn't seem to see why I felt like a right **** and he continued to think nothing was wrong with lieing and felt he had done nothing wrong. Over this weekend just gone I met the first guy again and during his stay he found out I had sex with the second guy and the humiliation became apparent. I felt so ashamed of myself I couldnt look this guy in the eye and struggled to stay in the same room when he turned and said he had lost respect for me, I felt like I had just lost my chance with this guy however it wasn't all doom and gloom, we sat down and chatted about it all and the first guy said how the second guy trys to get with anybody that the first guy likes. I felt like I had been taken for a ride yet again, however we got resolved the issue and continued as normal. slowly more things were surfacing about the second guy that made me feel so stupid that I even wondered why I liked him. and the second guy is blaimed me for the guys falling out as they are 'best friends', today however took a turn for the worst and my best friend had all her help thrown back in her face by him saying that it is all her fault that things went bad between my and this other guy and are the reason for the break up of a 4 and a half year friendship when initially she had nothing to do with it and was only giving help when he asked for it. I'm literally so angry that this guy feels he has done no wrong and he can just point blank blaime everyone and anyone even when they arn't involved. It's like he thinks he is gods gift and he is perfect in every way.It's going to be so difficult between me and this first guy if this other guy keeps going at it like he has. I really don't want things to be spoilt. So my question is, why are men seemingly so ghastly and vile?