Personally, I was extremely anxious at my first meet (March this year) but the members were very friendly (Professor X, Ellie L, Adam Y, Holly, Peaj and Skunky to name a few). It may come across as people trying to avoid you but the truth is they are friends who are trying to catch up after not seeing them for a long time. For that reason it's a bit ridiculous to expect people to gather round you and demand your attention towards them. Both parties need to put the effort in.I agree that the meets could do with some more structure so maybe the next forum competition could be to come up with meet ideas and the mods/admins can pick one between them for the next meet. Will, FN seems to be only happening on busy days this year so that could be difficult.