Okaay, I'm just going to catch up on the conversation here:I'm gay and I am open about it to friends, but when it comes to family I am quite secret about it. I always say 'whats wrong with being gay' when my brother or stepdad say something about gays. I have always been really camp and everything, and I loveeee Lush Cosmetics. I sit with my friend (girl) and put her makeup on for the fun of it and stuff. I think my family knows I am gay, and I over heard my mum on the phone saying she thinks I might be gay, but she also said she wouldnt be bothered if I was, so that kind of reasured me alittle. My Dad would be fine with it and so would my mum, but my stepdad and my brother would hate it. I feel that I want to tell them, but I am scared of the actual 'mum I am gay thing' and my brother would find out and he would take the mick out of me. I dont dress that gay but my brother says I do. I have known since I was little that I'm gay and I know its not a phaze. My mum might think it is but I'm sure its not. I admitted to my school I was bisexual once, when I thought I was and has the mick taken out of me for ages and I only just got rid of people calling me names. That was a phaze so this time I want too have a relationship, or do something with a boy, just to make sure its not a phaze. I have a really homophobic school, but I am fine with people taking the mick out of me, I'm just scared of the whole parents bit.And how do you meet gay people! I am only 13 but I have only ever met one gay person thats like 18? Any advice would be good thanks x