Rant

[tomglazed]

Seriously this forum has become such a hotbed for hatred and bitchiness it's unreal.

[Mer]

Agreed Holly. And it's always the same people. Sighs...

[Pickles]

Right this stuff needs to be sorted now. I know I'm not completely innocent with the bitchy comments but as people who have met me know that's just me. People need to seriously calm down with the bitchy sarcastic comments and the bitchyness in general. Community–noun, plural -ties.1.a social group of any size whose members reside in a specific locality, share government, and often have a common cultural and historical heritage.2.a locality inhabited by such a group.3.a social, religious, occupational, or other group sharing common characteristics or interests and perceived or perceiving itself as distinct in some respect from the larger society within which it exists (usually preceded by the ): the business community; the community of scholars.4.a group of associated nations sharing common interests or a common heritage: the community of Western europe.5.Ecclesiastical . a group of men or women leading a common life according to a rule.6.Ecology . an assemblage of interacting populations occupying a given area.7.joint possession, enjoyment, liability, etc.: community of property.8.similar character; agreement; identity: community of interests.9.the community, the public; society: the needs of the community.Read that and grow up seriously.

[Rich]

+1 your post Holly!

[Mer]

I'm fed up with my brother being such a bossy, moody, nasty c**t. Oh yes, Ryan isn't as nice as you think he is. And he's certainly not hot when he's shouting and grumpy :)He constantly talks down to me and mum and bosses us around, and has these moments where he flips out at me over sod all. A kind reminder just now to turn the Sky box off resulted in him storming in, shouting, "Why don't you f***ing do it, you do f**k all, I'm f***ing sick of you!" He claims he doesn't know why he is in such a foul mood but he better sort it out soon, I dunno how much more I can take. And my mum sides with him, I hate to say it but she must be so thick, when she cannot see how and when he's in the wrong! I left Thorpe cos of the favouritism but it appears to be happening in my own home now! It doesn't matter how mean he is or how much he swears, I get moaned at. Just because my voice is loud and annoying. Yeah that's how odd and annoying my mum can be. They also seem to becoming more and more ignorant to my Aspergers and ADHD. Awkward to talk about on here but I'm so p'd off I don't care right now! I don't give a toss that my Aspergers is only mild, I still have difficulties socially and sometimes I struggle to understand what I have done or said being wrong or inappropriate. So I say something apparently wrong, Ryan goes ape over it, I shout back cos I honestly don't know what I've done wrong and guess who gets the blame, me! A simple explanation would suffice rather than a "Yeah right, don't think you can use your condition as an excuse all the time!" Cheers for that. Y'know, cos I love having mental/behavioural/maturity difficulties SO much that I just pretend they affect me when I want to. Of course, there are times where I do know what not to say but cos I'm angry or whatever it gets said, which obviously everyone does. That's not my issue. My issue is my family being ignorant about when it truely does affect me, and the fact that my nasty brother gets away with treating me like crap. He has depression. Right, well mum has bipolar, I have depression, ADHD and Aspergers but you don't see us acting like that!I have been so so so happy recently and more confident, as noticed by many on here, so I'm really sorry to put you through this awkward rant This is why I love you all so much, you're normal happy people who make me feel on top of the world, my difficulties seem to just disappear (well obvs they actually don't but y'know what I'm saying). Or maybe I really am a selfish bitch who doesn't care about her family (yep that's what I get told pretty much everyday).Ugh I hate these rants and I'm so sorry for putting you through my crappy life stories...but I had to let it all out somewhere.

[Rich]

Totally agree with you Tom! Life is way too short and this Easter Weekend has made me see that for real...!

[Will]

SONYSort your Playstation network out, this is ridiculous now!

It's been out for 4 days, I hope it's back soonAnyways, I get what you are saying Michaela. I've had people off these forums message me on Formspring saying stuff like my friend has Asperger's but he doesn't use it as an excuse like you do and he leads his life normally. It's a surprise that no-one wants to own up for it but has no problem saying it on a place, where I can't find out easily who they are.The sheer ignorance of people dumbfound me. Are some people so thick and stupid, they think I really enjoy and take pleasure in having the problems I do, that I used it as an excuse, whenever it suits me. I don't want to be the way I am but God or whoeever made me this way and I just gotta do the best I can.I get invited to parties at Uni and birthdays at restaurants, nightclubs and BBQs but I don't go, because I feel uncomfortable. I want to go out and have fun and lead a normal life but it's really hard and the stress has caused IBS and that has made things even worse. I'm trying to eat healthier and to get into a better routine and I'm trying to find ways to de-stress myself, so at least I'm making a huge effort on my part.

[Mark9]

This pisses me off the constant sarcasm from people on the forums etc. Were meant to be a community yet we can't have one discussion without someone doing something.

I don't get it because in person everyone on here is truely amazing. Unless people are being fake and feel they are able to say what they want behind words written on the internet.I'm starting a campaign..

[Benin]

The internet allows us all to say things we normally wouldn't...Fortunately, I'm still about as cynical and sarcastic offline as I am online :)Haters gonna hate...

[Ryan]

It could be worseYou could be this guy

[Benin]

[Laelda_95]

Tbh, I acknowledge that alot of the time on here, I always seem to be involved in beef, or whatever you wanna call it, but it really doesn't help when I say something that I don't feel is offensive and then someone gets lairy or bitchy at me. If something I say is something you either don't like, or don't agree with, politely tell me so. But there's no need to be rude. If someone's rude to me, I'll obviously be rude back. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I get the impression that a lot of people don't like me on here, for whatever reason.

[Ryan]

Tbh, I acknowledge that alot of the time on here, I always seem to be involved in beef, or whatever you wanna call it, but it really doesn't help when I say something that I don't feel is offensive and then someone gets lairy or bitchy at me. If something I say is something you either don't like, or don't agree with, politely tell me so. But there's no need to be rude. If someone's rude to me, I'll obviously be rude back. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I get the impression that a lot of people don't like me on here, for whatever reason.

Agreed ^

[JamesB]

My best friend's friend, passed away from cancer today cruel world, I hate you. I don't even know what to say to my friend.

[Laelda_95]

My best friend's friend, passed away from cancer today cruel world, I hate you. I don't even know what to say to my friend.

Aww I'm sorry, that's a horrible situation to be in :/

[Deleted Users]

Peppa Pig needs to get out of my town and go back to Paultons

[Mer]

Anyways, I get what you are saying Michaela. I've had people off these forums message me on Formspring saying stuff like my friend has Asperger's but he doesn't use it as an excuse like you do and he leads his life normally. It's a surprise that no-one wants to own up for it but has no problem saying it on a place, where I can't find out easily who they are.The sheer ignorance of people dumbfound me. Are some people so thick and stupid, they think I really enjoy and take pleasure in having the problems I do, that I used it as an excuse, whenever it suits me. I don't want to be the way I am but God or whoeever made me this way and I just gotta do the best I can.I get invited to parties at Uni and birthdays at restaurants, nightclubs and BBQs but I don't go, because I feel uncomfortable. I want to go out and have fun and lead a normal life but it's really hard and the stress has caused IBS and that has made things even worse. I'm trying to eat healthier and to get into a better routine and I'm trying to find ways to de-stress myself, so at least I'm making a huge effort on my part.

What people need to realise is that just because two people have the same disorder or whatever, doesn't mean they will both act and behave the same. So pretty pointless making comparisons between you and their friend!And it's great you're making the effort Will This is another issue I have; being told I make no effort to help myself. People like us often put ten times more the effort of others without such difficulties but it can be hard to notice, especially to those ignorant or undereducated on the conditions. To them, they expect us to be on the same "level" as they are. But it's not always possible, we don't think the same way so how could we possibly be the same, and to their standards?There's this ADHD article I downloaded, 40 pages long from a world wide leading expert on it. He made a good point of saying that people with ADHD have a 30-40% maturity lag, so this has to be taken into account, when people are expecting them to do the same as others their age, or when they say "You're so many years old, you should be doing this and that!" And he also says that people with ADHD do get their in the end, but will always be behind cos of this lag. He explained it by comparing it to 2 cars racing each other, one slower than the other. The slower one will reach the finishing line but will always be catching up. It may seem like the chores I do at home are minimal, but for me personally/mentally it's an achievement. And it seems to come in bursts. For a while I seemed to stop but then over the past year I've started doing so much more. This time last year I would not be found doing my own washing, changing bedding etc. And this is what my mum and brother don't get. They need to stop telling me what I should be doing/having a negative attitude, and focus more on what I can do and have positive thoughts and feelings about it. Aannnnd breathe...!

[NickD]

Why does no one celebrate St. Georges Day?!!??!?!?!? Is it because they're scared that they'll offend ethnic minorities? Whatever the reason, people need to be more patriotic!

Agree, absolutely mockery that this country celebrates St.Patricks day more than St.Georges. Especially when the Irish are the ones who go bomb chucking and didn't want to be a part of Britain...Anyway, I just wanted to have a quick rant. The Police.I'd hope that most on here know me and don't see me as a nasty , dangerous , abusive person. On Saturday I went to Chelsea vs West Ham, a major derby in football. The game was moved to 5:30pm on a Saturday, which meant the chances of it kicking off where a good 99%. West Ham fans where in a pub in Chelsea, I headed down and was told to move away by 2 coppers on horses. I did as I was told and began to walk away, as I was walking away I shouted to west ham "your all a load of ****ing scum" .... carried on walking, then BANG... thrown to the floor by two coppers on police horses, put in cuffs and was nicked for "Obstructing Police". Had to wait 15 minutes for a van, then the bastards escorted me past the west ham pub .. queue chants of "Wan*er Wan*er" from all the West Ham fans. I got literally chucked about in the van, copper right in my face shouting at me .. just told them where to go. Ended up withing being locked up till 10pm , they said "your free to go" took me outside, that was it... I turned back and said "Really, is that it...?" "Yes" .. I knew they didn't have a leg to stand on, when I got nicked I told them how much my lawyer was gonna have a field day.The police are there to do a job.. that job is to POLICE. They wasted a cell in South West London on Saturday on someone who done sweet FA wrong. Fed up with it.

[Laelda_95]

Them police must have been Man Utd fans :/ Ireland shouldn't be part of Britain, not that I'm British: I'm ENGLISH!

[Ryan]

Them police must have been Man Utd fans :/ Ireland shouldn't be part of Britain, not that I'm British: I'm ENGLISH!

I would say "as if people from manchester have the brains to be in the police force"But then I remembered most man utd fans aren't from manchester...

[Sheepie]

Just to round a few things off from the last page.May people accept my deepest apologies if I have hurt them in any way (directly to Tom here). I assure you it was not my intention to come between two people or have a negative impact on any relationship. I would like to eventually be able to wipe the slate clean. Like you said, things have happened in the past... people have moved on, it's about time I did too. Just to clarify, I never spread any lies or endeavoured to say things with malicious intent. That's not me at all.There is some hostility between members of this forum, and if I'm being honest, some of it is justified. Some things are unforgivable and I think I can speak for a few members here when I say that sometimes, for your own safety, you cannot find it in you to move on. It's justified because some things are more sinister when you go digging than what everyone sees on the surface.With any situation where people get hurt, it takes time for wounds to heal. I'm upset with someone from here right now and they're completely oblivious to what they've done. It's unlikely that I'll want much to do with this person again but in time I'll be able to find a common ground and can manage to be civil at least.I'm sorry if I've made anyone feel uncomfortable over the last couple of weeks with the recent drama. I don't make a habit of these things.Thanks for reading.

[Laelda_95]

I would say "as if people from manchester have the brains to be in the police force"But then I remembered most man utd fans aren't from manchester...

LOLI was born in Reading but there's no way that I'd support Reading. That would just be stupid :L

[Ryan]

LOLI was born in Reading but there's no way that I'd support Reading. That would just be stupid :L

I'm from Surrey but my dad has been a Man Utd fan his whole life, him and my mum used to go to games every other weekend. I was kind of forced to be a Man Utd fan so when people say I glory support it really gets on my nerves. But I do support Brentford too so yeah

[Laelda_95]

I'm from Surrey but my dad has been a Man Utd fan his whole life, him and my mum used to go to games every other weekend. I was kind of forced to be a Man Utd fan so when people say I glory support it really gets on my nerves. But I do support Brentford too so yeah

Same here. My dad's a chelsea fanatic so I have no choice. And yeah, I always get the glory supporter thing, but I'm not a glory supporter- I got my first chelsea shirt when I was barely a year old. If I dared support someone else, my dad would disown me, I kid you not.

[Pickles]

Just to round a few things off from the last page.May people accept my deepest apologies if I have hurt them in any way (directly to Tom here). I assure you it was not my intention to come between two people or have a negative impact on any relationship. I would like to eventually be able to wipe the slate clean. Like you said, things have happened in the past... people have moved on, it's about time I did too. Just to clarify, I never spread any lies or endeavoured to say things with malicious intent. That's not me at all.There is some hostility between members of this forum, and if I'm being honest, some of it is justified. Some things are unforgivable and I think I can speak for a few members here when I say that sometimes, for your own safety, you cannot find it in you to move on. It's justified because some things are more sinister when you go digging than what everyone sees on the surface.With any situation where people get hurt, it takes time for wounds to heal. I'm upset with someone from here right now and they're completely oblivious to what they've done. It's unlikely that I'll want much to do with this person again but in time I'll be able to find a common ground and can manage to be civil at least.I'm sorry if I've made anyone feel uncomfortable over the last couple of weeks with the recent drama. I don't make a habit of these things.Thanks for reading.

I would like to apologise to anyone whos been hurt by my vendetta against Seb but I cannot forgive him for stuff thats been said. Either way Sheepie we all know you never meant it maliciously and I'm sure that we all still love you deeply.