Paul Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 by the sounds bi-curious could be brought into practise Yes! Ok, I'll settle for bi-curious. :PAnd, I don't hate you Keith! Thanks Mikey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 I think I'm similar in some ways. I've always liked girls and I've been this way since I was about 4 years old. My best friend when I was in primary school was this girl who was really pretty and now at this present moment, she is absolutely drop-dead gorgeous. I've always found it easy to talk to girls and act normal, most guys pretend to be something that they're not, or they try too hard to impress a girl or get her attention.I've always thought of myself as straight, but I am open-minded and am not singling out those things. I intend to get married and have a wife and kids. It's not because it's normal, it's what I want. I've come from a small family with parents and sister, a cousin I rarely see and about 12-16 cousins / nephew / nieces over in Malaysia / Singapore where Mum's family live. Having a wife and kids is something on my long-term list.I am not looking for a relationship at the moment because I don't think I am ready. I need to grow-up more, take more responsibility and change a few things here and there. I've never been in a relationship, so I don't know what I like. I admittedly, have done things in high school but it was a mistake, I was very vulnerable and it was the lowest-points in my life. Those experiences made me even more confused.I don't want people to categorize me because I am not like everyone else. I've never been in a relationship and I won't know if I am straight or bi until something happens. I am not looking for a boyfriend but if someone who really took me by suprise came along, and was different, then I don't know what could happen; but I do know, I will always like girls. I don't think that anyone can rule out being bi/gay unless they have had some experience, that convinces them they aren't. The reason for this, is that you won't know unless you've tried. I hate curry and I know I hate currey because I've tried and I find it to be disgusting - same rule? Girls and boys play spin the bottle and in some cases, a same sex kiss occurs and if you liked it, you liked it and if you hated it, you hated it. But then, you might be in denial and might have liked it, but don't want to admit it, in fear that you become socially-rejected by friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 I don't want people to categorize me because I am not like everyone else. I've never been in a relationship and I won't know if I am straight or bi until something happens. I am not looking for a boyfriend but if someone who really took me by suprise came along, and was different, then I don't know what could happen; but I do know, I will always like girls. I don't think that anyone can rule out being bi/gay unless they have had some experience, that convinces them they aren't. The reason for this, is that you won't know unless you've tried. I hate curry and I know I hate currey because I've tried and I find it to be disgusting - same rule? Girls and boys play spin the bottle and in some cases, a same sex kiss occurs and if you liked it, you liked it and if you hated it, you hated it. But then, you might be in denial and might have liked it, but don't want to admit it, in fear that you become socially-rejected by friends.Completely agree. Great post too, Will. In my year at school (an all boys school), there is one person who is admittedly gay. He gets picked on quite a bit, but only in a jokey way, and I'm actually great friends with him. Most people in my year at school seem to have the same opinion of 'Urgh, being gay is disgusting etc'. I have a group of friends (about 6 or 7) that I am incredibly close to, and share absolutely everything with. If I had a gay experience and found that I liked it, I would have no shame in telling them, or telling them if I was gay or bisexual. They won't tell anyone outside the group anything, unless I specifically want them too, and they make me feel so warm, and that I can trust them with anything. It really helps, knowing that I've got those friends that I can tell things to, and it makes me feel a lot more comfortable growing up that I know that if I need to tell them or want to, I can without feeling like I might be rejected for it.But in terms of sexuality, I'm Straight, maybe a little bi-curious. The real truth is, at this present time I'm suffering one of the worst things. I'm in love with someone who I can't have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themeparkmad Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 Most people in my year at school seem to have the same opinion of 'Urgh, being gay is disgusting etc'.I am sorry that you have that in your school. When I came out to friends at my school, they were fine with it and everyone accepted it.Some people did give me a weird look for a few days but I never changed myself as a person & they relised that.Hopefully as you go through years, you will find most of the ****s will mature.If I had a gay experience and found that I liked it, I would have no shame in telling them, or telling them if I was gay or bisexual.Good for you Paul!They won't tell anyone outside the group anything, unless I specifically want them too, and they make me feel so warm, and that I can trust them with anything. It really helps, knowing that I've got those friends that I can tell things to, and it makes me feel a lot more comfortable growing up that I know that if I need to tell them or want to, I can without feeling like I might be rejected for it.I started off doing the same. I told a few people and I thought it was a major deal as then I thought I was different to everyone.Then, all of a sudden you will feel that you aren't bothered and if people go "Are you gay/bi" - you will probably have no problem saying yes or no whether they are your friends or not! :PAlso, if you do end up gay or bi - remember this - Anyone that was your friend that goes against you for your sexuality was NEVER your friend in the first place!I am fortunate I have not had to think that about anyone to date... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 Also, if you do end up gay or bi - remember this - Anyone that was your friend that goes against you for your sexuality was NEVER your friend in the first place!I am fortunate I have not had to think that about anyone to date...Thanks for the advice, Keith. I completely agree, I know none of my close friends would do that, they have said countless times that they don't care what your sexuality is, as long as you don't go in their face about it, which is understandable, I hate it when two people start getting off in front of me, whether they're straight or not!I'm still the same person, regardless of my sexuality. I'm just happy that I'm currently in a place where people can accept that. As for the tw*ts that can't deal with it, I don't give a 'flying fish' about them! (As quoted by Keith) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark9 Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 To be fair, being gay is disgusting and quite frankly, tpm should ban this sick filth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyT Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Marc was being ironic/ sarcastic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark9 Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 I thought you were leaving mark, and Its there decision so if they think its fine we have to accept that I'm gay lol and I still think its disgusting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themeparkmad Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 To be fair, being gay is disgusting and quite frankly, tpm should ban this sick filth.I had to Lol Mark for obvious reasons! :DAnd TPM should ban the silk filth eh? - Looks like half of its members will be leaving then. Including myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AeRo Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 He's funny, you know. Not funny "Ha-Ha", funny queer.So yeah, I say drive them away from here... every single filthy one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themeparkmad Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 ^ On your bike then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AeRo Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 After you honey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themeparkmad Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 After you honey. OMG I love you Peter! :DB*tch fight!I also love all your crazy emotions... literally! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricky Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Peters Crazy emotions can make my day sometimes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AeRo Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 I have no idea what you guys mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welsh Boy Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 This might sound bad, but I have a girlfriend, but to be honest I'm not sure what I am... Please don't judge me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tidear Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 I still have my problem and it seems to be getting worse, still feeling incredibly tired and I'm barely managing to pass my GCSEs at this rate... : ( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themeparkmad Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 This might sound bad, but I have a girlfriend, but to be honest I'm not sure what I am... Please don't judge me Why would we judge you?!I know someone who had a boyfriend and is now a lesbian.You could go gay, bi or remain straight.Just take things as they come and go with what feels right inside Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welsh Boy Posted February 19, 2010 Report Share Posted February 19, 2010 I was joking about you guys judging me Thanks for the advice... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tubs Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 This might sound bad, but I have a girlfriend, but to be honest I'm not sure what I am... Please don't judge me I was joking about you guys judging me Thanks for the advice...Sod being judged on your sexuality.. ya welsh too! I hate all dirty homosexuals, and feel they should be banished from the earth, their perverted and disgusting actions are not right by our lord jesus christ!But anyway, yeh.. I'm gay aswell! A more interesting question I find towards the gays, if you had a choice, would you still be gay? If I was offered the choice now, being able to change at this point in my life, it'd be no, however, if I had had the choice when I was younger and I was finding out what I was, I'd have DEFINATELY gone for being straight, no stigmas attached to it, it's 'normal', etc etc etc, the list goes on! Not that I'm unhappy now, just feel that life may have been easier, had I been a straight! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoshC. Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 The thing I find unusual is I know quite a few gays, but I don't know a single lesbian. Has anyone else find being openly gay is more common in men than women, or am I just in an area where not lesbians are around? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 I have 5 lesbians in my year (THAT WE KNOW OF)So yeah maybe it's where you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark9 Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 I know a lesbian. Compared to about 100 gays. So yeah....As for Tub's question... wouldn't change it for the world. An important thing for me is that being gay isn't my personality, it's just one aspect of me. I guess I'm lucky that I didn't 'discover' myself until the end of school so I didn't have the jeering and bullying side of it which may have made me ashamed... However the boyfriend is so open and so "pro-gay rights" it's rubbed of on me slightly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyT Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 I'm with Mark on this one. Being gay is a small part of me, it is part of what makes me who I am, and I'm not sure if I'd be the person I am today or have the same close relationships if I remained straight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamY Posted April 20, 2010 Report Share Posted April 20, 2010 I'm straight but I have no problem at all with gay people :)As for the 'gay as an adjective' thing, my citizenship teacher said something quite good: "You wouldn't go up to someone and say, 'your shoes are so Muslim!' would you!"Made us all laugh :DDisclaimer: Not intended in a racist way, ect ect... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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